Right Parenting
Right parenting is an approach that emphasises discipline and authority. It is based on the idea that children must be obedient and follow their parents' rules strictly. Parents who use the right parenting approach may use punishment as a means to correct their children's behaviour. They often focus on the outcome rather than the process, and the rules laid down by them are non-negotiable. Children raised with this approach may become proficient at following instructions obediently, but often lack self-motivation and critical thinking skills.
Positive Parenting
Positive parenting is an approach that centers on positivity and guidance. This approach takes into consideration the development and wellbeing of the child as a whole. Positive parents encourage their children to express themselves, explore and question the world around them. They use positive reinforcement to guide appropriate behaviour, like verbal praise and rewards such as stickers. This approach emphasises on open communication, mutual respect, and building a strong relationship between parent and child.
Differences between Right Parenting and Positive Parenting
The following are some significant differences between right parenting and positive parenting:
Positive Parenting
Right Parenting
Discipline
Positive parenting requires punishment to be non-aggressive, consistent, fair, and effective
Right parenting uses strict discipline and can involve harsh punishments
Communication
Positive parenting puts high emphasis on communication and active listening between child and parent
Right parenting is typically a one-way communication where parents give directions
Self-expression and creativity
Positive parenting encourages self-expression and creativity, showing consideration and compromise in making decisions alongside children
Right parenting gives little or no chance for self-expression and creativity, and emphasises control
Outcome versus process
Positive parenting prioritizes the development, mental health, growth, and happiness of the child
Right parenting emphasises the outcome and performance – immediate compliance and obedience, over the child’s social-emotional development and long-term learning
Final Thoughts
When it comes to parenting, there is no one size fit all approach. Ultimately, it is up to the parents to decide what approach they want to take, what is in line with their values and what they think is best for their child's development. The approach they choose will have a significant impact on their child's life in the short and long term. It is recommended that parents evaluate their parenting style and modify their approach if necessary, always keeping in mind the child's best interest.
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